I think it is wonderful that you’re openly and honestly sharing your experiences caring for your son. I feel it is an experience most people are not aware of and so, I think your pieces offer some real insight.
I actually started working as a disability support worker only two months ago, my partner does it and she helped me get the job. It has been very eye-opening as it is totally different to anything I’ve ever done. And so, I really appreciate reading about your experiences.
Thanks so much, Michael. And, huge thanks for you and your partner's work, that's really wonderful to hear. We need good, compassionate people like you, I'm so glad you're there.
Love it! It’s as if you live rent-free in my head, steal my thoughts and write about them each time. But then I know as parents/caregivers, we walk similar paths. Sometimes even the same exact ones. Always love reading your take on stuff, it’s therapeutic! 😊
This is beautiful, Robin. It sounds like you and your son have such a genuine bond. I love this:
"He reaches his hand out toward me, palm down, fingers spread. I firmly pinch the tip of his index finger. He shifts his hand slightly, inviting me to continue our usual pattern of squeezes on each remaining finger and thumb. Then, his other hand is offered, to complete the cycle. A small smile and a connection, restored."
This was beautiful Robin.
I think it is wonderful that you’re openly and honestly sharing your experiences caring for your son. I feel it is an experience most people are not aware of and so, I think your pieces offer some real insight.
I actually started working as a disability support worker only two months ago, my partner does it and she helped me get the job. It has been very eye-opening as it is totally different to anything I’ve ever done. And so, I really appreciate reading about your experiences.
Thanks so much, Michael. And, huge thanks for you and your partner's work, that's really wonderful to hear. We need good, compassionate people like you, I'm so glad you're there.
Great write! B is so very lucky to have you! And your husband too.
Thanks, Iris! :)
Love it! It’s as if you live rent-free in my head, steal my thoughts and write about them each time. But then I know as parents/caregivers, we walk similar paths. Sometimes even the same exact ones. Always love reading your take on stuff, it’s therapeutic! 😊
Thank you - it’s therapeutic for me, too, and as you know, I need to write this stuff down to figure out what I think!
pissiness-in-proximity this is the PERFECT line! Very very relatable.
Glad you had a chance to recharge, and mend the carers cloak, already looking forward to your next newsletter 🥰
Thanks! Oh, I know you know how that p-i-p feels!
This is beautiful, Robin. It sounds like you and your son have such a genuine bond. I love this:
"He reaches his hand out toward me, palm down, fingers spread. I firmly pinch the tip of his index finger. He shifts his hand slightly, inviting me to continue our usual pattern of squeezes on each remaining finger and thumb. Then, his other hand is offered, to complete the cycle. A small smile and a connection, restored."